Post by RitaDiva on Jun 25, 2016 14:50:06 GMT 1
There is a website called "The Secret Language of Birthdays" and it is suppose to tell you your personality based on your birthday. I entered Lauryn's birthday and 2 things that stood out are:
*In their lifetimes they may leave behind enough unfinished projects to occupy a dozen human beings.
and
*Those born during the Week of Freedom balk at restrictions and aim to maintain their independence at all costs.
LOL
It's long, but here is the full thing:
Personality of this day...
Those born on May 26 have a natural appeal. Although they are fiercely opinionated, those who disagree with them can usually see where they are coming from, and thus a certain amount of respect is engendered. They are very responsible in their statements about the world and seem to uphold traditionally conservative values; indeed, they often represent the common man’s viewpoint. Yet, in living their lives, they may be capable of unusual and even outrageous behavior that contradicts their stated beliefs. Their impulsive nature can involve them in violence, either in committing it or being its victim.
The strong desire of May 26 people to be free to act on their own may run counter to the constructs of their family and social group, or to society at large. In this respect they live on the fringe, even flirting occasionally with what may be viewed as borderline criminal activity by some. However, this may only enhance their popular appeal. They can even play the role of outlaw protectors. This fierce need to express their individuality may have deep underlying psychosocial roots in an overly structured childhood.
Although they can have difficulty expressing their emotions openly, May 26 people usually have a warm heart. Those born on this day see themselves as champion of the underdog, but paradoxically, often rise to high positions of power. Responsibility is a fixation for them—strangely enough, they demand it of others but sometimes fall short of it themselves. It is the struggle to be responsible (somewhat undermined by their mercurial tendencies) which demands a good part of their energies in life. Those born on this day often feel great remorse and guilt when they fail to live up to their own rigorous standards.
May 26 people have a somewhat guarded and serious outlook. Friends and family may wish that those born on this day could take life a bit more as it comes. Being happy, in a permanent sense, is not really possible for them, since strife and conflict figure so prominently in their outlook. Yet, in a larger sense, May 26 people can be very fatalistic. Having tried every avenue of problem solving or “making the best of it,” they may serenely accept the inevitable, secure in the knowledge they have done what they can.
No matter how extroverted they seem, May 26 people have a very private and quiet center to their personalities. They are not only capable of hiding their true feelings but periodically withdraw from life, perhaps insulating themselves from the world and its cares. They have a curious way of working out personal problems, which may appear to others as not facing them at all. Generally May 26 people arouse either strong like or dislike, appearing in very black-and-white terms to those who meet them. In fact, they are complex personalities who must be given a great deal of time to be truly understood.
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Personality of this week...
Those born during the Week of Freedom balk at restrictions and aim to maintain their independence at all costs. Generally on the side of the individual, they hate oppression and exploitation, opposing them both in theory and in practice. These people will not usually back down from a fight. Naturally combative, they stick up for what they believe is right and will not hesitate to attack wrongdoing in any form, be it moral or practical, for these individuals believe there is a right way and a wrong way to do things, and that only the right way will yield uniformly positive results. One of their strongest weapons is laughter or ridicule, which they do not hesitate to pull out of their formidable verbal arsenal. Still, they are willing to give the other fellow a second chance. Resilient, they will not quit valuable relationships easily; instead, they hang in there, letting go of resentments.
Bright, perky and alert, but also a tad abrasive, these people are high-speed players who get impatient with other people’s slower responses. Often technically gifted, they can get annoyed when others are less skillful in performing a certain task. Given this low threshold of irritation, they may get stressed out easily, lashing out with irony or sarcasm. Their aggression is often a reaction to what they see as incompetence or stupidity, but it does not make them easy to live or work with.
They have ultraquick impulses and fertile imaginations, sometimes overly so. They are constantly dreaming up new plans and schemes, perhaps at the expense of pressing matters that need attention (such as paying bills). In their lifetimes they may leave behind enough unfinished projects to occupy a dozen human beings. They often lack the patience to implement their plans in a sensitive way. Further, they may make promises in good faith yet break them later due to new and pressing demands. Such actions undermine their own credibility.
Family life can have a grounding influence on their mercurial energies; likewise, clever mates and friends will put their quick wits and talents to constructive uses, often by introducing them to interesting activities, jobs and businesses requiring close attention and maintenance. A relatively rootless among them will often blossom when put to work in a structured position involving a lot of responsibility. If their work gives them the opportunity to innovate, they may continue quite happily in the same position for years.
Those involved in relationships with them, whether family, friends or lovers, won’t need to do much guessing as to their state of mind. They are both emotionally volatile and not at all shy about verbalizing any discontent they may have. In extreme cases, in fact, they can be constant complainers, though for the most part they just have a periodic need to get their dissatisfactions off their chest. Those close to them usually let them run on, picking out the core of the difficulty and letting the rest go in one ear and out the other. An emotional reaction such a person can escalate quickly into a full-scale fight. It is better to hear them out patiently, no matter how long it takes. They have a habit of repeating themselves, so they cannot fairly accuse others of not listening to what they say.
Considering their emotional volatility and changeability, they are surprisingly loyal partners. They do tire of routine quickly, though, and may from time to time find it necessary to change the structures of their most intimate relationships to keep from being bored. Those best able to carry on with them will be able to accept their need for stimulation, variety and a regular change of scene.
Protective, they are capable of putting their prodigious energies to use in rescuing others from trouble. Unfortunately, they sometimes wind up subjecting rescuees to their own brand of tyranny, in a benighted effort to make things turn out right. Their first impulses are often to relieve difficulties through prompt and rational action, yet the manner in which they proceed may somehow create more problems than it solves. They may recognize the objective needs of a family member, for example, and may seek to satisfy them, yet may fail by not taking their feelings into account. They may give conditionally, using rewards as a means of control, and withdrawing rewards as a means of punishment.
Those born during the Week of Freedom are not at all above emotional manipulation. In fact, they rarely hesitate to turn on their considerable charm when they want to get their way. They are highly seductive, and few can resist their often considerable sex appeal. In time, however, their flirtatious and provocative allure may wear thin if not backed up by a reliably sympathetic stance. As their mates and lovers will attest, these folks can become unhinged with lightning speed; they are at their best when they keep their nerves under control. Accordingly, they should avoid all drugs and stimulants, particularly alcohol, that will alter their consciousness or cause them to be less present.
and you can lookup your own here: www.thesecretlanguageofbirthdays.com/lookup/
*In their lifetimes they may leave behind enough unfinished projects to occupy a dozen human beings.
and
*Those born during the Week of Freedom balk at restrictions and aim to maintain their independence at all costs.
LOL
It's long, but here is the full thing:
Personality of this day...
Those born on May 26 have a natural appeal. Although they are fiercely opinionated, those who disagree with them can usually see where they are coming from, and thus a certain amount of respect is engendered. They are very responsible in their statements about the world and seem to uphold traditionally conservative values; indeed, they often represent the common man’s viewpoint. Yet, in living their lives, they may be capable of unusual and even outrageous behavior that contradicts their stated beliefs. Their impulsive nature can involve them in violence, either in committing it or being its victim.
The strong desire of May 26 people to be free to act on their own may run counter to the constructs of their family and social group, or to society at large. In this respect they live on the fringe, even flirting occasionally with what may be viewed as borderline criminal activity by some. However, this may only enhance their popular appeal. They can even play the role of outlaw protectors. This fierce need to express their individuality may have deep underlying psychosocial roots in an overly structured childhood.
Although they can have difficulty expressing their emotions openly, May 26 people usually have a warm heart. Those born on this day see themselves as champion of the underdog, but paradoxically, often rise to high positions of power. Responsibility is a fixation for them—strangely enough, they demand it of others but sometimes fall short of it themselves. It is the struggle to be responsible (somewhat undermined by their mercurial tendencies) which demands a good part of their energies in life. Those born on this day often feel great remorse and guilt when they fail to live up to their own rigorous standards.
May 26 people have a somewhat guarded and serious outlook. Friends and family may wish that those born on this day could take life a bit more as it comes. Being happy, in a permanent sense, is not really possible for them, since strife and conflict figure so prominently in their outlook. Yet, in a larger sense, May 26 people can be very fatalistic. Having tried every avenue of problem solving or “making the best of it,” they may serenely accept the inevitable, secure in the knowledge they have done what they can.
No matter how extroverted they seem, May 26 people have a very private and quiet center to their personalities. They are not only capable of hiding their true feelings but periodically withdraw from life, perhaps insulating themselves from the world and its cares. They have a curious way of working out personal problems, which may appear to others as not facing them at all. Generally May 26 people arouse either strong like or dislike, appearing in very black-and-white terms to those who meet them. In fact, they are complex personalities who must be given a great deal of time to be truly understood.
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Personality of this week...
Those born during the Week of Freedom balk at restrictions and aim to maintain their independence at all costs. Generally on the side of the individual, they hate oppression and exploitation, opposing them both in theory and in practice. These people will not usually back down from a fight. Naturally combative, they stick up for what they believe is right and will not hesitate to attack wrongdoing in any form, be it moral or practical, for these individuals believe there is a right way and a wrong way to do things, and that only the right way will yield uniformly positive results. One of their strongest weapons is laughter or ridicule, which they do not hesitate to pull out of their formidable verbal arsenal. Still, they are willing to give the other fellow a second chance. Resilient, they will not quit valuable relationships easily; instead, they hang in there, letting go of resentments.
Bright, perky and alert, but also a tad abrasive, these people are high-speed players who get impatient with other people’s slower responses. Often technically gifted, they can get annoyed when others are less skillful in performing a certain task. Given this low threshold of irritation, they may get stressed out easily, lashing out with irony or sarcasm. Their aggression is often a reaction to what they see as incompetence or stupidity, but it does not make them easy to live or work with.
They have ultraquick impulses and fertile imaginations, sometimes overly so. They are constantly dreaming up new plans and schemes, perhaps at the expense of pressing matters that need attention (such as paying bills). In their lifetimes they may leave behind enough unfinished projects to occupy a dozen human beings. They often lack the patience to implement their plans in a sensitive way. Further, they may make promises in good faith yet break them later due to new and pressing demands. Such actions undermine their own credibility.
Family life can have a grounding influence on their mercurial energies; likewise, clever mates and friends will put their quick wits and talents to constructive uses, often by introducing them to interesting activities, jobs and businesses requiring close attention and maintenance. A relatively rootless among them will often blossom when put to work in a structured position involving a lot of responsibility. If their work gives them the opportunity to innovate, they may continue quite happily in the same position for years.
Those involved in relationships with them, whether family, friends or lovers, won’t need to do much guessing as to their state of mind. They are both emotionally volatile and not at all shy about verbalizing any discontent they may have. In extreme cases, in fact, they can be constant complainers, though for the most part they just have a periodic need to get their dissatisfactions off their chest. Those close to them usually let them run on, picking out the core of the difficulty and letting the rest go in one ear and out the other. An emotional reaction such a person can escalate quickly into a full-scale fight. It is better to hear them out patiently, no matter how long it takes. They have a habit of repeating themselves, so they cannot fairly accuse others of not listening to what they say.
Considering their emotional volatility and changeability, they are surprisingly loyal partners. They do tire of routine quickly, though, and may from time to time find it necessary to change the structures of their most intimate relationships to keep from being bored. Those best able to carry on with them will be able to accept their need for stimulation, variety and a regular change of scene.
Protective, they are capable of putting their prodigious energies to use in rescuing others from trouble. Unfortunately, they sometimes wind up subjecting rescuees to their own brand of tyranny, in a benighted effort to make things turn out right. Their first impulses are often to relieve difficulties through prompt and rational action, yet the manner in which they proceed may somehow create more problems than it solves. They may recognize the objective needs of a family member, for example, and may seek to satisfy them, yet may fail by not taking their feelings into account. They may give conditionally, using rewards as a means of control, and withdrawing rewards as a means of punishment.
Those born during the Week of Freedom are not at all above emotional manipulation. In fact, they rarely hesitate to turn on their considerable charm when they want to get their way. They are highly seductive, and few can resist their often considerable sex appeal. In time, however, their flirtatious and provocative allure may wear thin if not backed up by a reliably sympathetic stance. As their mates and lovers will attest, these folks can become unhinged with lightning speed; they are at their best when they keep their nerves under control. Accordingly, they should avoid all drugs and stimulants, particularly alcohol, that will alter their consciousness or cause them to be less present.
and you can lookup your own here: www.thesecretlanguageofbirthdays.com/lookup/
